In this video, I explain the foundation of my Do What You Can Live With philosophy a deeply personal framework that asks one question:
If you got the call tomorrow that your loved one had died… what would you regret?

This isn’t about guilt. It’s not about blame. It’s about clarity.

I recorded this in response to a mother who proudly claimed her son got sober because she cut him off. And while that may be true for her story, for many of us, that same approach can lead to the deepest regret of our lives.

Tough love tells you to detach and let go, no matter what.
Do What You Can Live With asks you to lead with love but also with boundaries, with honesty, and with the awareness that you’ll have to live with whatever comes next.

This is for every parent, partner, or sibling who’s been told there’s only one “right” way.
You deserve a framework rooted in humanity, not fear.
And if you’re still unsure?
Ask yourself the question that changed everything for me:
If the worst happened tomorrow… what decision would you be able to live with?