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About brandi mac

I’m Brandi Mac—a critical care nurse practitioner, mother, addiction advocate, and woman who’s had her soul cracked open by this system more times than I can count.

I built this work because I needed it. Because I’ve been the mom on the floor in the middle of the night, praying my daughter would survive her fentanyl addiction, and constantly being told “She has to hit rock bottom” all while I was the one dying inside.

I’ve fought insurance companies, seen first hand how broken and corrupt the addiction treatment industry can be, and learned that many detox protocols were more like punishment than care.

Every treatment center she would enter-was able to tell me exactly what I wanted to hear and make unrealistic promises all while draining our retirement. There was no real discharge plan, and no effort in providing real direction to families who desperately need it.

9x’s in treatment over 4 years.

Relapsed within 30 days…every time.

And I kept thinking: Where the hell is the person who’s supposed to help families like mine?

So I became her.

What I Do

  • I help families survive the wreckage of addiction—without losing themselves to it.

  • I educate on Gold-Standard treatment in Addiction medicine.

  • I train providers on how to treat people who use drugs with dignity, not judgment.

  • I consult on medical cases where the chart hides more than it reveals.

  • I speak truth into systems built on silence and shame.

What I’ve survived

Watching my daughter fight for her life—and her dignity—through addiction and recovery

  • Being promised by facilities that they are MAT friendly, to wean her off against her wishes and she relapse

  • Seeing little to no compassion for people withdrawing in the hospital and zero discharge plan or resources provided

  • Feeling completely alone while trying to do the right thing, with no map and no margin for error

My work is rooted in harm reduction, trauma-informed care, and regret-based decision-making—because when you're a mother in crisis, you stop caring about the “right” way and start asking:

What can I live with?

Why Families Trust Me

Because I don’t sugarcoat.
Because I won’t shame you.
Because I’ve walked this road with a bleeding heart and a clinical eye.
And because I believe you deserve to love your person without destroying yourself.

Professional Street Cred (In Case You’re Wondering)

  • MSN, AG-ACNP board-certified nurse practitioner

  • 10+ years in critical care, trauma, and emergency medicine

  • Legal nurse consultant and founder of Vitals & Verdict

  • Speaker, educator, and writer behind Prescribed Chaos

  • Creator of the free survival guide: Do What You Can Live With

  • Podcast Host of : Do What You Can Live With: Navigating Through Addiction and Recovery

A stethoscope lying on a surface, with the earpieces and tubing visible, used for medical examinations.
A daughter who found sobriety, and happiness in a world that was against her
Addiction and Recovery Advocate who wants to end healthcare stigma

My why

I’m not here because it’s trendy. I’m here because it was either this or break apart completely.
If you’re in the middle of the storm—grieving, confused, exhausted—I just want you to know:

You’re not crazy. You’re not weak.
You’re just trying to do what you can live with.

And I can help.